There are, indeed, many articles like: The 5 best tips to... or, The 10 things that will get you... But there is one small slice of advice that can help, that is so powerful, so simple to bring in to your personality, it is surprisingly rarely mentioned. It is one of the oldest, and best ways to get ahead, it is to use something that has stood the test of time. Active Listening.
The Way to get more from your personal trainer career - your clients
Listening takes real confidence and personality, it takes concentration, and shows that you are different from all the others. Many times I have been with someone and they have said that they have never met a guy who they had such a great conversation with and that I was so intelligent and fun to be with. During the whole time I only occasionally spoke, I did of course talk and express my opinions and interests, but the main thing I did was to actively listen and take an interest.
Have you ever met someone who not only looked like they listened to every word, but actually did. Someone who after one conversation seemed to know you and understood you? It may surprise you that people like to talk about themselves, especially if they are talking to someone who is interested to listen.
While shy people worrying about what to say, and the loud may be talking about themselves again, you can be listening to what the other person is saying.
Listen to your clients
I have dropped a number of private tutors service providers when they did’t take what I wanted on board and proceeded to do what they wanted. They were not active listeners.
I have never ever heard any of these complaints after someone has met me:
"He just wouldn't stop listening to me!"
"I felt like he actually listened to me and understood me. It was so annoying."
So, stop listening to your inner voice telling you what you could say next, and start listening to them, they will tell you exactly what to say and when, exactly what they need to hear. You only need to let them talk and make a concerted effort to listen.
Get Started - become their ideal personal trainer
If you want to get the started, just ask open questions in a friendly manner. Or, use ambiguity to create some flirtation, try to be 80% interested and 20% interesting